As families get more complex, so does the estate planning. Since most families have some sort of mix of children and stepchildren now, how do you ensure that your mixed family does not end up fighting over inheritance after you are gone? Here are some things to do to prevent family conflict during an emotional time.

Communication

Most family squabbles start from a fact of expectations that are not discussed. One way to head off any major misunderstandings is to have a frank discussion with everyone involved so they know what the plan is for the estate once you are gone.

Having discussions like this can be difficult. The end result is that expectations are set and there are no surprises at the time the will is read. This can help to ease any hurt feelings and might even lead to discussions among children and step children about ways to better handle the estate.

Shared Charitable Donations

If hurt feelings over who gets what are the goal, why not sit down and have a discussion about philanthropy. Instead of leaving the estate to children and step-children directly have a discussion about what charities would benefit most from the estate’s asset. Decide as a family who will ultimately benefit.

This can help form a bond amongst would-be rivals and end up being a bonding experience for the entire mixed family.

If you are looking for legal assistance in setting up an estate plan for a complex estate, contact Stano Law Group.