While most of us may feel we have a clear understanding of the word “agitation,” a quick review of the word’s definition can provide a fresh perspective—and perhaps even insight—on how to help a loved one who appears emotional overwhelmed.
-“Extreme emotional disturbance.”
(The American Heritage Dictionary of the English Language)
-“A stirring up or arousing; disturbance of tranquility; disturbance of mind that
shows itself by physical excitement.”
(Webster’s Revised Unabridged Dictionary)
– “Mental state of extreme emotional disturbance; feeling of being agitated; not calm.”
(WorldNet 1.6)
With these definitions in mind, caregivers may want to consider reassessing their current approach to assisting their loved ones during confusing and emotionally turbulent times. This is especially important for those diagnosed with Alzheimer’s disease or dementia, as these individuals often have great difficulty expressing their emotions in a way caregivers recognize. Consequently, if your loved one seems agitated, but you’re not sure why and he or she seems unable to explain why, then you want to consider how your response may affect them. For instance, if your loved one says “I’m scared,” then you may not want to respond by asking “Why should you be scared?” Instead, you should focus on validating his or her feelings by saying “I’m sorry you feel scared. Would you like to talk about how you feel some more? Maybe there’s a way I can help.”
Agitated individuals can exhibit intense displays of emotion to the extent that emotional outbursts turn in uncharacteristic and potentially dangerous behavior. Such behavior can unintentionally cause physical harm to your loved on in the form of a fall or other emergency such as an unexpected rise in blood pressure. In the event your loved one has experienced agitation due to the improper care of personnel or other caregiver, you should get in touch with a qualified Ohio elder attorney as soon as possible.
