Deciding if you should step in and be a caregiver for a loved one is neither an easy decision, nor one that should be taken lightly. Often, caregivers find themselves thrown into a role, even if it is not something they want to do. And let’s face it, not everyone is cut out to be a caregiver, and that is perfectly alright.
If you find yourself in a situation where you have become a caregiver unwillingly, there are alternatives available. It may be a case of your own family or career making it impossible to care for your loved one, or a that you cannot emotionally handle the journey ahead. In these cases, the best you can do for your loved one is to ensure they receive the care they need, even if you cannot provide that care yourself.
For those that are able to take on the responsibility, the rewards can be wonderful. Many caregivers cherish the memories that they create during the journey, and grow as individuals because of the process.
Regardless of your decision, finances will play a part in the future. An experienced elder law attorney can help you determine what resources are available to your loved one, such as government benefits and respite care.
Coping with the declining health of someone you love is never easy. There are people willing to help, and finding the resources you need is the first step in planning.
