If you’ve recently moved your loved one from one city or state to another, then you likely have questions about how to best help him or her cope with a new, unfamiliar environment. Chances are, you and your loved one have already undergone a great deal of stress—stemming from the diagnosis and symptoms of the condition. Should you not take the proper measures when moving your loved one to a new location, you could unintentionally invite additional stress into both of your lives. For instance, consider the consequences you’d face if your loved one accidentally got lost in a new, unfamiliar city. How would you go about finding him or her and what would you do in the event of an injury?
While you’ll obviously need to make necessary preparations for your loved one to ensure his or her safety and security, one thing you should keep in mind is that your loved also needs, very simply, time. Without time to adjust to new settings, your loved one will likely experience confusion and anxiety resulting in elevated levels of stress. To reduce this potential confusion and anxiety, you should provide your loved one with additional assurance and affirmation. For instance, instead of going into a lengthy detailed explanation as to why you needed to move your loved one, you may just want to say, “I know this move has been difficult for you, Dad, but I love you and wanted you close to me.”
Ways to Help Your Loved One Adjust to a Move
-Make a picture album of good memories; include pictures of family, friends, house, favorite vacations and accomplishments
-Place recognizable personal items throughout his or her room
-Introduce him or her to neighbors and friends
-If still able to write, provide a journal and encourage him or her to write down his feelings
-Find a support group contacting your local Alzheimer’s Association
-Have him or her talk with someone other than you—a friend, or professional counselor
