One of the longest journeys a caregiver makes is the seventh stage, which involves healing after the loss of the loved one. During this stage, you will find ways to accept what has happened and move on with life. The idea is not to forget the journey that led you to this point, but to process it and heal.
Many people find that sharing their story with others is the first step to healing. If you aren’t comfortable talking about things, consider journaling. You will cherish the written memories of this process, the good and bad points are all lessons that make us stronger people.
In telling or writing the story of your elder loved ones struggle, you are able to make sense of what has happened. It provides a means of bringing order from the chaos that you may be feeling.
There is no set time that should be dedicated to the healing process. For each of us, it is different. Be sure to make certain your loved ones wishes are carried out, and seek the help of an elder law attorney to finalize financial and legal aspects during this time as well.
